"I just want to spend sometime with you"... in your pants.

... I really shouldn't have to say anything on this topic at all. However, since it was recently e-mailed to me as a request post, lets do it anyway. These words should never be uttered unless you are in a highly committed relationship and have been too busy with school/work/sick. If someone is saying this, what they really means is "I just want to spend sometime in your pants." It's fine when someone breeches you with this phrase, you should still find it flattering, just please don't go into any resulting situation thinking you'll just be talking. Unless this person is not interested in persons of the opposite sex, they don't want to talk and you're naive for thinking that. Common offenders of this phrase include but are not limited to: ex-persons, "friends", hook-ups, and most fraternity/sorority peoples.