IF you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with....

By far the worst song lyrics ever. Anyone whose truly madly deeply been in love, knows that they just need to follow it and have faith. You can't settle on love. I always say you have to like someone in order to love them. But just like love develops, it can also fade, and when it does fade you need to move on. Find the one you love, be with them and then you can love the one you're with because that's your real love. I think everyone has multiple soul mates, because I think people change so much over time that while one person might fit one day, the next day you may need a cowboy to sweep you off your feet. Maybe that cowboy is the one you're supposed to love, not the super stable rich guy. I think you just need to go with your gut reaction sometimes and always be with the one you love, through distance/pain/arguments/tornadoes... fight for it so that in the end you can love the one you're with.